WHY DO SOME BOYFRIENDS DO WHAT THEY DO!

Why do some boyfriends do the things they do?Im sure they know its going to irrate u bt they do it anyway. Like tell you that they want you to go out of town so they can go to a concert. Why can't they ask if ya want to go. NO they don't want their girlfriends to experience anything new like that, they tink us woman should stay home or go to a family members house so they can have fun. Well those kind of guys piss me off. They need to understand that us woman would like to go and do stuff like that. When the guys don't ask us to go an just tell us o go to a friends house or a family members house makes it sound like they are planning to do something bad. So they need to stop an think before they tell us what they want to do or where they want to go.